This post is especially written
for those people who are frustrated, disappointed and have pessimistic vision
of life. I know what happens when disappointment hold upon a person. He/she
feels darkness around him. He/she could not see the light behind this darkness.
I have tried to emit some really pleasant words from my vocabulary in order to
make you frustrated people realize the existence of uncountable reasons to
smile and merriment.
The first thing is that time
never stops, and the frustration or pain is to be gone after a few moments. You
see that your today is not the same as the tomorrow. Your life changes every
moment. This throbbing moment is to be a part of your past and you present may
be wonderful to you. Taking the tension of your present loss or worry will not
be a proper solution to your problem. You should not spoil your time worrying
about
the time which has passed. Just wait for the next pleasant moment. Life
is bed of roses for those who even learn to enjoy their sorrows and anxieties
too. They are always happy and smart. No worry can blemish their pleasure and
gratification of life.
Many of those who commit suicide
due to high depression and anxiety would have been laughing with loud voice if
they had waited for a while. They would have enjoyed the next moment if they
had let that deadly moment passed with patience. And of course, all of us know
that suicide takes just a few moments, and perhaps a single moment to take a
lovely soul out of a beautiful body. And how hard is that single moment for the
strong people like us.
The next thing is so many charms
of the world which are waiting for our attention. If you are depressed,
annoyed, or disturbed, that does not mean that you pay no attention to the
things which need your notice. You are now looking upon the dark aspects of
life; the reasons to cry, the reasons to be sad, the reasons to be gloomy. Just
take your imagination a little away from all that dark images and I assure you
that there are thousands of reasons to smile. There are many things which will
fill you with life again if you divert your concentration to them.
Moreover, stress and depression
are the situational terms and the situation has to be changed at every cost.
So, I don’t think that a situation should affect our life, out attitude, our
imagination or our personality. The only things which you must do are to be
patient and wait for the term of next situation.
Anyhow, if you have to deal with
not a situation but with a relation which you cannot quit easily, just try to
fox on the bright sides of that relationship. I am sure you will not have been
in that relationship without any source of attraction in that particular
person. You may have missed you focus on that very thing which first time made
you think of establishing that relation. You should try to build a mutual
understanding on controversies between you. And again, I would say that your
next day might be totally different from today.
For example, if the matter is of
one relation, and you want to damage your life, how many relations are there
who are associated with your life, for whom your life matters a lot, who may
have more importance in your life than that relation. Have you ever thought of
those who always seek your safety even at the cost of their own life care?
Whatever the reason you catch for
your stress, tensions, sadness or even death, there are always more reasons for
your satisfaction, pleasure, happiness and life. Not a situation should disturb
your stable emotions. Just smile on that pitiable gloomy situation which has no
importance in your eyes. Enjoy the vulnerability of that situation which could
not damage a hair of yours. Then overlook it and fix your eyes on coming
felicity behind it.
Boring yet? Just laugh loud on
your stupidity…
